
This Is It
My story has had one thousand happy endings.
My story has had one thousand happy endings.
I see that conflict is most wholly resolved when we are moved by the pain reflected in the person before us.
Too often we are asking the wrong question.
Even when victory Monday became commiseration Monday, I felt the beauty of living that disappointment together.
At the outset of my twenties I needed a lot.
Our chosen words are the latticeworks upon which our worldviews are grown and shaped.
I’m feeling an invitation to linger a while longer in each moment, in each day, in each year.
Unfortunately, horses do about as well being cooped up in the barn as we do being stuck in the house, and it didn’t take long for tensions to rise.
I think my love of surprises has something to do with my love of good stories.
I pictured the coyotes silently circling, their yellow eyes and bared teeth ready to make quick work of the nylon between us.
“If you have a bat in your dwelling after hours, please press four.”
You might find yourself less afraid of the unknown, because you have faced and conquered it before.
Sleeping on a sailboat in the middle of the work week is my fulfillment of that dream.
Stop fussing about the alternatives or worrying about wrong turns.
It is my firm belief that the enduring power of middle school narratives is why therapists will always have jobs.
You’ve never navigated that parking lot, or that odd intersection, or that strange left-lane exit and you are just trying to find the nearest Target.
It comes in the back door and doesn’t ask anything of us.
I think about my bleeding control kit. I remind myself to radio base when I’ve arrived on scene.
Just kidding! I can’t do any of the things I thought I could.
But this year I learned that Dad had found her the next weekend, fifty yards from my stand.
It’s not the trailhead, or the campsite, or a vista, it’s the next blue paint on a tree, and you only find it if you keep walking.
In a time when anticipatory grief and suffering are the ways of the world, it may seem naive to believe that Mayberry is more reality than dream.
The world felt wide and untouched and while I was scared to hope, I wanted to believe that this was the part where I would find the joy.
Mostly, I think, I want to feel some bit of control.
That night I called my parents and tried to make it sound like I was having fun, when I really just wanted a dry place to sleep and a few moments to myself.
Our family has been talking a lot about tradition these days.
It’s comforting really, to know that even our greatest achievements will blend into the soil that others will stand on.
Picture a croissant but folded into a crown shape and coated with coarse sugar that carmelizes over the already crispy exterior.
My dad called me while we watched in silence and I said, “I don’t want to live here anymore.”
Like he says,”What’s the worst thing that could happen?”