It’s hardly the holidays without it.
Katie is a doctoral student in English and education at the University of Michigan. She loves the New York Times crossword puzzle, advice columns, oceans, and dogs of all kinds.
It is so hard, in the midst of it, to see online dating as anything other than a means to an end—but it became much more palatable for me once I began to understand it as a life stage in its own right.
I am not sure how to accurately convey the unpleasantness of this experience. There was no part of my body that went gentle into that good night.