
Look to the Margins
When we stand in between two spaces, we see things we wouldn’t see otherwise.
When we stand in between two spaces, we see things we wouldn’t see otherwise.
The churches that speak out hatefully against gay people—as well as the churches who, smiling, offer the poisoned chalice of church community only at the cost of any possibility of lifelong romantic love—miss out incalculably.
I train the hose on our seedlings and think about the rains that have failed over and over again in parts of the Horn of Africa.
In another country and another time when I was only twenty-two, I somehow spoke this life into being.
No one sits for hours at an information booth because it is their passion.
The girl who had spent her teenage years wearing Lord of the Rings costumes to the grocery store grew more polished and careful, but then the mask started to fit a little too well.
It wasn’t a bleeding heart that sent me overseas for those years.
As her name suggested, Libertad would be freedom for me.
In between is an uncomfortable space that is more often “neither/nor” than “both/and.”
Yet, I remembered over coffee, a broad view of justice may sometimes include simply “giving people a fish.”
It is so good to get back into a crowd, but it’s harder and stranger and lonelier than I expected it would be.
Separated from his historical context, I saw him more as a punchline than either a hero or a villain.
The current pulls them loose and I watch helplessly as they float out of sight.
As much as we hope to find friends where we land, I wonder how many of us simply direct our energy into things we can better control.
Some say she kills the men; in Honduras, she usually makes them go crazy.
“This isn’t who we are” rings false in a country that has yet to fully wrestle with its original sins of colonization and slavery and its ongoing sins of racism and imperialism.
The turn of this year feels too fragile for plans.
If our imagination is wild enough and our compassion strong enough to invent radioactive kittens that will protect future generations, what other innovations might we create?
I don’t want to think about the election right now.
The moment I began to slide, I thought of nothing.
Birds feel the pull of the compass, and they also cast their eyes upward for a map.
Here, lightly edited, are a year of the mundane and serious and baffling things I felt the need to save.
I am from this place as much as I am from anywhere, and it’s this recognition that helps me know that I can feel this way again.
I managed to stretch this weak joke (reach for the stars but, like, “the actual stars”) for far too many lines—all rhyming, of course.
I feel caught up in a collective urge to tend things.
But one day we started to tell the story, and as we heard it coming from our mouths we knew it meant the story was behind us, and we had lived through it.
A robin pulls a fat worm from the ground in the middle of a traffic circle and life suddenly feels too grand, too expansive, too beautiful to possibly come to an end.
How much do we love red? We crush rocks for it. We smash bugs for it.
Hope does not exist in a moment; we must create hope.
What I mean is that we must be skeptical of solutions that simply throw money at complex issues.